I had the kids over yesterday. Sometimes they are very good but a lot of the time they are naughty. It's difficult to get a good relationship going with them because I only see them every other saturday. When they leave their mother they moan about not wanting to leave but when I bring them back the don't want to leave me. They're at an age onw where they can remember and say things their parents say and she has been saying some nasty stuff about me and they say it too and it hurts a lot, I would never dream of badmouthing her to, or in front of the kids because it will make them think about these things. I love my kids so much and I can't bear them saying things like this or feeling like that, it's just horrible. Sorry for the rambling incoherence of this blog but there is so much more to say and I can't figure out how to put it down. This feels like a bit of therapy getting it on here.
Sunday, 11 March 2007
The kids are alright
I had the kids over yesterday. Sometimes they are very good but a lot of the time they are naughty. It's difficult to get a good relationship going with them because I only see them every other saturday. When they leave their mother they moan about not wanting to leave but when I bring them back the don't want to leave me. They're at an age onw where they can remember and say things their parents say and she has been saying some nasty stuff about me and they say it too and it hurts a lot, I would never dream of badmouthing her to, or in front of the kids because it will make them think about these things. I love my kids so much and I can't bear them saying things like this or feeling like that, it's just horrible. Sorry for the rambling incoherence of this blog but there is so much more to say and I can't figure out how to put it down. This feels like a bit of therapy getting it on here.
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that is so fraking irresponsible of her, it drives me nuts. my sons father doesnt even exist to him, and as much as i hate him for that, i try to never even mention it in front of tristan. i'll come out there and beat her up if you want. =)
thanks that's a tempting offer! I came out of the break up much worse off, I was thrown out two and a half years ago when the youngest was 6 months and the eldest was 2. Every week is like starting again she even called me a glorified babysitter!(I just read that back, I sound weak)
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